**By- KHUSHWANT SINGH* 
 
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*Having lived a reasonably contented life, I was musing over what a  person 
should strive for to achieve happiness. I drew up a list of a few  essentials 
which I put forward for the readers' appraisal. 
 
1. First and foremost is GOOD HEALTH. If you do not enjoy good health you  
can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct from your  
happiness. 
 
2. Second, A HEALTHY BANK BALANCE. It need not run into crores but should be  
enough to provide for creature comforts and something to spare for  
recreation, like eating out, going to the pictures, travelling or going on  
holidays on the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be only  
demoralizing. *Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in  
one's own eyes.  * 
 
3. Third, A HOME OF YOUR OWN. Rented premises can never give you the snug  
feeling of a nest which is yours for keeps that a home provides: if it has a  
garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them  
grow and blossom, cultivate a sense of kinship with them. 
 
4. Fourth, AN UNDERSTANDING COMPANION, be it your spouse or a friend. If  
there are too many misunderstandings, they will rob you of your peace of  
mind. It is better to be divorced than to bicker all the time. 
 
5. Fifth, LACK OF ENVY towards those who have done better than you in life;  
risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be very  
corroding; avoid comparing yourself with others. 
 
6. Sixth, DO NOT ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE to descend on you for gup-shup. By the  
time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their  
gossip-mongering. 
 
7. Seventh, CULTIVATE SOME HOBBIES which can bring you a sense of  
fulfilment, such as gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or  
listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to get free drinks or to meet  
celebrities is criminal waste of time. 
 
8. Eighth, every morning and evening, devote 15 minutes to INTROSPECTION. In  
the morning, 10 minutes should be spent on stilling the mind and then five  
in listing things you have to do that day. In the evening, five minutes to  
still the mind again, and ten to go over what you had undertaken to do. 
 
*RICHNESS is not Earning More, Spending More  Or Saving  More, but ...  *  
 
*"RICHNESS IS WHEN YOU NEED NO MORE"* 
 
 
Thank You for sharing!
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