Sunday, July 24, 2011

Never Judge a Book by its Cover


The Story of Koko A. Bassey, MD.

As she stood in front of her primary 5 class on the very first day of
school, she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she
looked at her pupils and said that she loved them all the same.
However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped
in his seat, was a little boy named Koko Bassey.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Koko the year before and noticed that he did
not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and
that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Koko could be
unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually
take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold
X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each child's past records and she put Koko's off until last. However,
when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Koko's primary 1 teacher wrote, "Koko is a bright child with a ready
laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to
be around."

His primary 2 teacher wrote, "Koko is an excellent pupil, well liked
by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a
terminal illness and
life at home must be a struggle."

His primary 3 teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him.
He tries to| do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest
and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Koko's primary 4 teacher wrote, "Koko is withdrawn and doesn't show
much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes
sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of
herself. She felt even worse when her pupils brought her Christmas
presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for
Koko's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper
that he got from a grocery bag.

Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other
presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a
rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that
was one-quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's
laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it
on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.

Koko Bassey stayed after school that day just long enough to say,
"Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the
children left, she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she
quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to
teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Koko. As
she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she
encouraged him, the faster heresponded. By the end of the year, Koko
had become one of the smartest children in| the class and, despite her
lie that she would love all the children the same, Koko became one of
her "teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Koko, telling her
that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Koko. He then wrote
that he had| finished secondary school, third in his class, and she
was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while
things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with
it, and would soon graduate from the university with the highest of
honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and
favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.

When children are doing nothing, they are doing mischief.Then four
more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained
that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little
further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite
teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer . . . The
letter was signed, Koko A. Bassey, MD.

The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter
that spring. Koko said he had met this girl and was going to be
married. He explained that his | father had died a couple of years ago
and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the
wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet,
the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she
was wearing the perfume that Koko remembered his mother wearing on
their last Christmas together. They hugged each other, and Dr. Bassey
whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for
believing in me Thank you so much for making me feel important and
showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said,
"Koko, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I
could make a difference.

I didn't know how to teach until I met you."

Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along. I love this story so
very much, Just try to make a difference in someone's life today,
tomorrow? just "do it". Random acts of kindness, I think they call it.

"Laughing Faces Do Not Mean That There Is Absence Of Sorrow!
But It Means That They Have The Ability To Deal With
It" --- Shakespeare

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